This is SO frustrating, because it's exactly the OPPOSITE of what my W says. She says she wants someone who loves her completely, who cherishes her, who is generous with himself, who spoils her. Doesn't sound like she wants a chase or challenge.
Of course she's full of it. It IS the chase that get's her feelings of love and infatuation going, but she won't admit it to herself. She truly believes that the reason she loses her feelings of love after the chase is over is because the man doesn't love her enough. Does anyone here think I don't love her enough??!!!