You're not "weak," Dagny. The fact that you faced him down and took the blast of WANTING to hear the truth about his infidelity attests to that. I give you major props for that.
I don't think "standing" equates with "weak," so long as it's part of some finite PLAN to do so. If it's done out of some combination of fear, co-dependency and doormat behavior ... that's different.
