Yes, my friend brought up the whole co-dependency thing to me. Taken me a few weeks to really monitor myself with some things.... (even down to s-e-x).... so I am going to go get a book and read it.... keep it in check.

When you have shared almost 20 years with someone... some patterns are hard to break and what works in a marriage does not work in a dating relationship.

Lesson learned.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too