Yes, my friend brought up the whole co-dependency thing to me. Taken me a few weeks to really monitor myself with some things.... (even down to s-e-x).... so I am going to go get a book and read it.... keep it in check.
When you have shared almost 20 years with someone... some patterns are hard to break and what works in a marriage does not work in a dating relationship.
Lesson learned.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too