I agree Pin, like she does many times she moves at 100MPH initially, and still has a bunch to still pick up. I am going to start moving stuff over to my place today and thru the weekend. When I am over at the new place she will not come by unannounced, she will feel uncomfortable doing so. My C told me last night that the W still feeels comfortable with me being at "our" house, when I leave there will be more mystery and darkness as to what I am doing. We will see each other today for the S teacher parent meeting, then I will try and be dark until church on saturday night. For a while she was just texting me now she calls me more.