P69,
Our W's are the same! Works everyday and late hours. Neglects the dog and shunned the kids for a few months and then finally me.

Fascinating question about further distancing yourself and appearing as if you don’t care. I find myself so into the GAL that I would have failed her test and acted aloof on the couch too.

You do better than me at giving compliments. My W went to work in a mini skirt Tues and I just chalked it up to her trying to get my goat so I said nothing to her.

We are now at the point we just leave the house without acknowledging each other.

I did send her an email telling her she will be removed from my auto insurance policy in a few days. Romantic huh?

I guess I can engage more but still stick to my plans.

I think other than the "catnip on the couch" you are doing well and I will continue to follow your thread because I see similarities to my own situation.


Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21
Bomb June 18, 2010
I filed D July 20, 2010
W filed counter suit Aug 2
Rings came off Aug 5, 2010