Question for the masses out there. Our anniversary is coming up in early Sept - will be 26 years. We're separated, but still married. We are a thousand miles apart in separate states. How to acknowledge the day? With a card? (seems right) With a gift? (seems not right) Things are cordial between us, but there is no talk of "us" while I wait out her journey. Hard to determine what breaks the 180 rules - certainly a gift does but it is an anniversary. Any thoughts out there?


Me: 48
W: 47
M: 25 years T: 30 years
S24, D21, D11
Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09
Separated Feb 2010