My walk away wife story

[40andsadintexas]

This week has been extra hard because I'm on vacation all week with my kids and have time to think. Being disconnected is so much easer.

[TimeHeals]

Take your kids to the park, zoo, etc. Go out and find something enjoyable to do aside from feeling sad for yourself (as fun as that sounds--smile).

[40andsadintexas]

Well I ran a background check on wifes new old boy friend this morning and found that he has been convicted on 2 counts of assault with deadly weapon the I find out that wife let him baby set 3 of our kids while she took my d to her aunts house in a naboring city. I took my info to the lawyers this afternoon by escalating our on going custody battle I may ruin the only sliver of hope for recelation but some times doing the right thing is just what you have to do. I hope I just set her first boundary.

[Chuck66]

Kids' safety is paramount above all else.

[KellBell0820]

Kids' safety is paramount above all else.

This. That would be one boundary you could set. You know about this man's past actions and you are not comfortable having him around your kids until you know they will be safe.

[40andsadintexas]

I have a quick question I have been in nc mode since separation calling or texting mostly about kid related issues only see wife at pick up drop off or activities. Tonight we had to take the kids to school to meet there teachers she met us at the school I was nice not cold as I was a month ago the last time we had to be some where for the kids she made some idle conversation I responded to her questions and was nice no more no less tonight when the kids called her she wanted to talk to me she told me some things about the kids then just started talking I talked to her for maybe a minute then passed the phone to a kid. So I guess I am being gray instead of black but with kids how black can you get. So did I handle the sich ok?

[Chuck66]

I am in the same boat. You can never go 100% dark with kids. You do the best you can and I think you did fine!

[A_goodman]

Hey man, you are doing fine in the db arena, but that takes a back seat to keeping that dirtbag away from your kids. Your W is making very poor decisions right now. And you need to hose her down in court. Forget about reconcilliation if taking the proper action jeopardizes R. You can get another W, Not so much for the bambinos.

Btw, I've looked back like three months. I can't find the WAW script thread. Sorry.

Good luck. Fight the good fight!

[40andsadintexas]

Thanks for looking for the waw script from reading waw post it looks like I will have plenty of time to find it

[40andsadintexas]

Today has been an ok day took my kids bike riding and my 2 older kids to the county fair. My twins are starting to miss there mom today they have tried to call her several times with no answer I will not say anything but the older kids sure pick up on that kind of stuff.
I was thinking today I wonder what the chances of making it through this with waw in full rebellion and keeping the family together 15 or 20 % or is that 2 genrous?