W and kids stayed at the new house last night, W called my phone this morning, i didnt answer the first time so she called again, I answered in case it was important. She asked if S backpack was here, I said I will look. I hung up went in his old room and it was hanging on the door, called her back and said its here I will leave it on the counter for you to get later. Well she said i will come by and get it now, I said he doesnt start school until monday and you still have a lot of other stuff to get. She came by anyway. I gave it to her, she looked like she got run over by a truck, must have been a rough first night. I went out gave the kids a hug and kiss and told them I would get them for the gym today.
I think its funny that she had to think of something to get to come over this morning. SHe probably has 5-10 more trips to make to the house to get stuff, and she comes by for his backpack which he doesnt need yet.... I was cordial not a jerk, but did not talk to her much. When we were separated before, she never slept in her bed at her house, she would not sleep well and always sleep on her couch. If she starts feeling like this is a mistake she will be too bullheaded to say anything, but again I cant worry about that. Life must go on.
