I never received a reply to my email where i laid out what we had discussed in our separation talk regarding the finance's and division of property. I had also offered to draw it up in an official separation agreement if she wanted.
I have seen her twice since then and she never mentioned it although she is doing some painting in the house to I assume get it ready for sale.
She also had some other financial stuff she was supposed to take care of yesterday which is critical to the separation and she never mentioned that either.
My question now is should I start nudging or pushing these things.
1. I can insist on getting the separation papers finalized 2. I can ask her for a timeline on finishing he financial stuff and say it is holding up the separation
It has only been two days since we had the separation discussion and i wont see her this weekend as i have plans. Should I give her time to soak things up or keep on the pressure.
i have NO FEAR as she is leaving anyway sooner or later and it is only the manner of her leaving and her memories of it that i can control.