Here's a story...of a very sad lady

[Dagny-2]

Well, we talked. He confirmed there is someone else. I don't know who she is, when it started, where he met her. I know nothing and I don't know if I want to know anything. Would it do any good?

He even brought tissues for me during our walk. He said now he knows what he has to do -- get an apartment. He will stay at the house 1 week a month while I have to travel for work. We talked a bit about how we will divide assets. He said that he won't be an [censored] this time (his words, not mine, though I agree with his sentiments). Last time his stance was I need to go get a job and support myself and I wouldn't get a penny of his 401k. This time he said whatever the courts decide will be fine. He'll come visit the kids 2 weekends a month (he is already planning our move). He said he won't ask me for a time-line! I didn't say a peep about Christmas break. I keep repeating it to myself, I'll stick around here until then, stay strong until then. Though last night I just wanted to pack the kids in the van and leave.

I don't know where to go from here. I did a good job last night of just listening and didn't issue a single sarcastic comment (they kept a constant stream in my head). He even wanted to know if we/he should tell the children there is an OW! Sure, lets tell the kids we are splitting and daddy has a girlfriend, that will help.

Horrible night last night, just couldn't sleep. He came up and asked me this morning if there was anything he could do for me. I said, haven't you done enough? I think if I can set a goal for only one sarcastic comment a day, that would be good. So I have to behave the rest of the day. I truly hate him at this moment.