Oops, just lost my post...silly me. Thanks for sharing what Jody told you. I want to read it again tomorrow when I'm more awake. Will post again then.

Just a thought....even if H has OW doesn't mean he's happy and content with her. She could be a security for him now as he continues to sort himself out....... Just a thought

Like what Jody said about patience. My DB coach said patience was the greatest asset and anger the greatest enemy in the situation.
Cas