Remember the good friend has an agenda of his own.
If you sat down with your H right now and he told you to your face that he is done, move on, what would that prove? I'll tell you what it would prove. H is deep in replay and he's spinning. What he thinks he wants now and what he wants if/when he awakens will be two different things. Remember MLC = Confusion.
There is a reason things are happening as they are. We may not know why at this time so you'll just have to trust the path you're on. It will be revealed to you in time. Something we have plenty of in this.
Be still, have trust and patience. We're here with you.
(((Hugs)))
Great post Eric. Thanks for the reminders. Self reflecting Sunday is a great idea. (((Hugs))) for you, too!