Hi GAG, I'm following your thread carefully too as I see some parallels there. I have plans to call the DB coach but think I will do so after the financial stuff is organised. If he is still visiting then I will know this is genuine....

Tonight H confirmed that he will have dinner with D and I every Tuesday.

I feel quite centred actually. I know I am much more detached than I've ever been and H knows this time that any issues and I won't be tolerating them. He also knows that I have made a commitment to speak my truth at all times and I have been doing that. He has responded very well when I have spoken up about issues that have bothered me.

Take care GAG and I will post on your thread tomorrow when I have time to re-read Jody's thoughts.