Half Way There

[Truegritter]

His point to me was that H has moved on and I won't accept it until he says it to my face.

I am going to say this to pun and anyone else that is listening.

You will hear this from people.

What is really being communicated when people say this to you?

They may have an alterior motive (this may be your case Pun)

But

more likely they have no f@cking clue what you are doing.

They are projecting their own fear on to your situation.

Think of how we relate to people.

How we empathize...

We try to understand and place ourselves into people's situation and then try to feel what they are feeling.

Right?

Look how long it has taken you to get where you are.

Remember how much pain you have had to suffer

...to learn the things you have learned so far.

So someone is going to give you advice by empathazing with your pain for a half a F@cking minute?????

Not F@cking likely...

You know why?

Look at our divorce rate in this country.

Most people don't have the stomach for this...

Somebody hurts them and

They run away.

THAT is what most people do.

This path takes courage. You have to overcome a lot of pain before

YOU grow.

To understand that you are not abandoned

That you are in control of your own life and only you can decide what you want.

That you are not a victim.

That you are someone who stands up for themsleves because they know who they are.

This is a journey and a long one...

Do not be sidetracked by the voices of the inexperienced.

You already know more than anyone you are likely to encounter

so

Keep your faith

... in yourself.