Amen. Pie, if you've followed my sitch, I recently let my H draw me back into his drama, and it's just not worth it.

I myself sent a song to my H right after we seperated. Then felt stupid for doing it. He never mentioned it to me. Ever. Didn't mean a thing. And it made me think, How old am I anyway? Sending songs to relay my msg? You so desperately want some validation to stand. I know. Some little sign, no matter how insignificant.

You'll do much better to concentrate on yourself. As my H said to me in a recent email before I went dark again " I want to get on with my life like you have yours" I have a life? News to me, but apparently it is appearing to him that I do.