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[Truegritter]

I know some people indicate that I should not be rude or harsh and others say I should.

IMO if you are rude or harsh it means one of two things

1) You are still the bitter a$$hole you have been for a while

2) You are trying some tactic to try to manipulate or control your W.

Both suck.

This is a process Bobby.

Detaching allows you to get away from the emotion that causes the anger.

It allows you to begin to heal.

While you feel anger it will come through when you communicate with your W.

When you open your mouth while you still have anger...

You confirm why she doesn't want to be around you anymore.

No tricks here.

No tactics.

You have to work on YOU if your M has a shot.

Or

Keep doing what you're doing.

Just have a bag of frozen peas ready to place over your head

....cause it will continue to be painful.