I am really starting to see a pattern here. For most of the week I feel like a strong, confident woman making descisions for myself and for my Daughters, But after every Wednesday visit from the STBXH I am left again feeling unsure of myself and confused. He comes here to see the Girls and because he has no where to take them yet, he comes in sits down in the living room and starts to act like everything is normal, Yesterday he wanted to go into the bedroom, he was looking for his camera case, So I guess he going to taking pics some where, he then also said he cant see the Daughters this weekend because he is going to the shore with friends and he is going to borrow the 2 beach chairs we have.

He was too busy to see or call them last weekend, this weekend he is going to the shore with friends and next weekend he is going out of town for the weekend too. Why can't he take the Girls to the shore with him ?

I want to stop these visits where he comes in the house and act like everything is just fine and dandy.


Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11