ok, I've just about had enough. He's asked me to watch the music video for that song. Says its well produced and hes watched it 10 times etc. the link is

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelHwf8o7_U&feature=av2e

Either he's being incredibly insensitive, or hes trying to send a message. I dont understand which. I've never been good at interpreting stuff. help me out here please.

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