I am learning alot and I am sure I had been part of our problem. I will continue to dig deeper. I have been staying away from her and the house for the last 2 days. I plan to be away today as well. She still has been asking me where I have been going and I have been vague and not telling her. I must admit I am confused with how one is to detach. I know some people indicate that I should not be rude or harsh and others say I should. I walked into the study last night to find my wife crying in front of my 23 yo daughter. I have no idea what that was about and I did not ask. I figured my wife would tell me if she wanted to. Ironically, I changed jobs to be home more but with all of this going on I am staying away. Tomorrow I plan to by some wood and make a bookcase in the garage. I do appreciate everyone helping me. I will continue to pray for all of us. In closing, has anyone heard of the 40 day plan related to a recent movie? My brother mentioned it to me yesterday and suggested I see the movie, the name escapes me at present. God Bless Bobby O
