Very understandable. I imagine that I would feel very hurt by that too. You were his wife and although his mom is very important, you should have come first.
It is obvious that he needs better boundaries with his parents. That's part of his contribution to the problems.
i think it's as "simple" as that. i thought i had everything figured out for us. which was wrong. and he needs to set better boundaries with his parents.
i'm not asking him to disrespect his parents. i need to come first. and i need to stop planning what's best for us. i need to loosen up. the BGPs are on a bit too tight.
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Crazy posts? Not sure what you mean, but if you are referring to the times when you are journaling and letting those vulnerable feelings come out - I think those are pure gold!
hehe. yes, i was referring to my crazy journaling posts. my crazy posts are the times when i drove the vets nuts with my out of control mindset and i start spewing out stuff like .. i want to have a baby now. i want to find someone to prove that i'm over my sexual insecurities, blah blah .. oh man, i look back at those and it's so embarrassing. but y'know, if it wasn't for that, i wouldn't be where i am now.
i read other threads and i seriously don't think there is another poster who has journaled as much as i have about my sitch. i love my thread. it documents my mood, feelings, and thoughts throughout my journey so far.
