deep down, i'm hurt that he confided in his mother and not me. i'm hurt that he sided with his mother and not me.
Very understandable. I imagine that I would feel very hurt by that too. You were his wife and although his mom is very important, you should have come first.
It is obvious that he needs better boundaries with his parents. That's part of his contribution to the problems.
Originally Posted By: DumpedforMIL
this wasn't one of my crazy posts too!
Crazy posts? Not sure what you mean, but if you are referring to the times when you are journaling and letting those vulnerable feelings come out - I think those are pure gold!
