Well my update, After last weekend and my wifes childish same old behavior, and me telling her she hasn't been my wife in months( incident with her car and me deciding I would give her a number to a mechanic and not fix it myself) I decided it was time to listen to her and grant her wish. I informed her I was filing and before I did I'd like to discuss the things she'd like so I can make this cheap and as easy for the both of us. Did that open one hell of a can of worms, when I laid out all the details of how this and that could be handled all I got was Attitude from her. I Informed her that if she couldn't listen to my thoughts an ideas and respect them I'd be forced to do it through an attorney. Apperently she thought it was as simple as signing one paper and everything magically disappeared. Even though I don't want a divorce I know I won't be happy with who she's become and the things she doesn't want to change so I'm making the choice of giving her a divorce and hope shell be happy with it as I know I will be fine
