It seems to me this shouldn't be so hard. Love shouldn't be so hard. We're in essence trying to "make" them love us again. We do everything we know how, and read about new ways to try, and I'm getting to the point of wondering if my H will ever love me the way he once did, and if he does, will it fade away again one day? I'm tired of trying to "make" him love me. I want to be loved for who I am and not who I have to become in order to have a chance that H may care again. I'm still the same girl he fell in love with all those yrs ago. He's still the same guy. I still love him and am not asking him to change. Sometimes I think people just fall out of love and it seems from on here some get it back, but then I wonder...did they ever really lose it to begin with?? Rachael
