Mrs. A--you just taught me the definition of "blocking!" I haven't heard that before.


Well, this is just a brainstorm but to break the pattern you could
1) answer when he calls, not let it go to voicemail. However, this may result where he stops calling. Because he might like the chase. It would be an experiment...

2)wait 48 before calling him back. Obviously you couldn't do that every time because it would be too noticeable that you are purposely doing it. BUt maybe 48 hours the first time,12 hours, then 28, etc.

3)randomly (without planning it) call him back or ignore.
4)just never answer. 100% let it go to voicemail. This might go on for several days and he will show up at your house.

What do you think? Again, these are not ALL of the options but just some ideas...


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004