You are correct we've reached an impasse. He's back to not pursing so I need to reevalute my 180s. Maybe the fact that I want him is causing him to sit back to see what I do now. Before he was unsure but now that he knows he has reached a place where he's comfortable that he doesn't have to do anything.
I think 180s using the Love Languages book may spark some response...whether he begans to pursue as a result will be an indication I'm on the right track.
When the tactic you are using does not produce the results sought then we need to try another approach is all. This may be the case in your sitch too.
