IMO, DBing is more than tactics to win back your spouse. It is really a way of life, a way of relating to people and getting to truly know yourself. So yeah, you should continue to DB.
MC is a tricky one. I personally believe that you are better off without MC, rather than bad MC ... so make sure your MC is solution oriented and pro-marriage. Those two factors will make sure that most of the advice that you get will be DB consistent.
Good luck! PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
