It's all kind of shocking to me. I guess still the most shocking was getting the "sex text" that H meant to send to the ex-gf he was chatting up. Although, him trying to convince the kids that I was a crazy person that was unable to be lived with(so he would be justified in getting out)goes right up there too. I mean, it's one thing for him to be selfish and trying to feed his ego with the ex,but to try and convince your children that their mother is so bad that she deserves to be walked out on??? That's low.