Yes, as soon as I started leaving him alone...totally alone and going out, changing my wardrobe...he began to pursue. Look at the past 2 years...are you still the same, acting the same, looking the same? Change up whatever you can drastically. did you read Acorn's post on detaching? If you normally call him to check his whereabouts, then don't do that, if you normally go to a restaurant on your dates, then go play pool instead. Do 180s wherever you can. Even in your conversations with him, if you are normally talkative and disclose everything, then start holding back info, try to get him to start asking questions about where you've been.
It takes 7 days to develop a habit...so as soon as you start employing these things they will become easier.
My h's behavior changed when I began to employ these type 180s.
