I wanted to say thank you SO much for sharing your wisdom and encouragement on my thread. Your words on everyone's threads offer a lot of much-needed insight and encouragement.
I agree with everyone's comments regarding the keys. MHL's post was right on.
How do you know that H expects you to return his keys? If he wants your keys he is capable of asking for them, right? Our WASs expectations for us to read their minds is what helped to get a lot of us here, don't you think? This is an opportunity to shape a change in H's behavior.