I agree with everyone else, SA. Your H is probably trying to get a reaction out of you. So silly! After all this time ... now he gives the keys back! Treat it as a 'whatever' event.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Thanks for posting on my thread SA. I think MHL is sopt on...we need to heed the perspective of others as they are detached. That's the value of posting here.
I have the same situation. My H has a set of my truck keys, and keys to the house. He has never offered to give them back. I have never asked. Did change the pass codes on the doors and the garage.
Having just been through all this crap with my H, I agree with what everyone else says. It appears you have had a nice, quiet spell, and he had to do something to stir you up again. Look at it this way. He wanted to get your attention in the worst way.
I wanted to say thank you SO much for sharing your wisdom and encouragement on my thread. Your words on everyone's threads offer a lot of much-needed insight and encouragement.
I agree with everyone's comments regarding the keys. MHL's post was right on.
How do you know that H expects you to return his keys? If he wants your keys he is capable of asking for them, right? Our WASs expectations for us to read their minds is what helped to get a lot of us here, don't you think? This is an opportunity to shape a change in H's behavior.
Our WASs expectations for us to read their minds is what helped to get a lot of us here, don't you think?
SO true, GAG! My H not only thought I could read his mind (and therefore he didn't have to communicate his feelings to me), but he also thought he could read mine, and acted accordingly. I now realize the latter was probably projection, but it was soooo frustrating to have my heart continually misread.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
Just checking in! Was thinking about keys...when H and I traded vehicles, I gave him the copies of the original key with the thought in mind that I was getting that vehicle back at some point...he has never asked for the originals and I know that he has 2 duplicate keys to the vehicle I am driving....
Just chalk it up to MLC weirdness!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
