He does think external changes will make him happier. He's always chasing... yes, he definitely doesn't know his center.

Yeah, I am happy he'll be leaving the place with the chick he made out with. If shes even there anymore... but a new job means new chicks!

It's so interesting you point out me being attracted to him. It's true. I've just been wondering the past couple of days. I love love love him. But... I really want a full partner. I want someone to value and cherish me. Oh, blah blah blah. it's what we all want!

But I do need to have patience. Patience patience patience.

And yes work, friends on this site, needing to exercise, planning for holidays, hanging out with friends, and being an energetic mom are all great distractions!

Thanks all... I'll let ya know if he ever brings up counseling again!