My walk away wife story

[40andsadintexas]

I have a question how do you set boundaries when she is in the driver seat she filed for divorce before I knew it was coming we had zero talks about divorce before she filed she got the kids she got child support she got the house. When she filed for divorce she told me I could see the kids whenever I want that lasted one week. Then she started telling the kids she is only going to let me see them when the judge said I could see them (standard visitation) right now she is in total control the only thing I can do is disconnect as much as possible with 4 kids for two months the only way I communicated with her was text then one day she said she was tired of me acting perfect and blocked my cell phone, then she tried to buy our kids love by buying the 2 oldest new iPhones then after less than one month she cut off service so they could not talk to me she called me and told me if I wanted to talk to the kids I could call her house and leave a message and if the kids went to busy she would have them call me back I quit calling the house and she could not stand it she had the kids call me 3 or 4 times a day then after 2 weeks she started having our 3 year old twins call me and ask why I did not call them any more

As with there is so much more but I don't know what's relavent and what's not.
So far it looks like the only thing I have done right is not beg and plead, I don not talk about the r I bought stop your divorce the day after she droped the bomb and it Coverdale these topics very well and I have tried to act happy