Well if you find out the answer let me know! I'm praying the use of the 5 Love Languages and some instruction from the c that my h will GET IT! He's at least attempting to try to FIX our communication by doing the 3 things.
I used to too maintain contact cause h wouldn't, and I was also afraid of what he'd do without me but I learned to let that go. And it has been very liberating to let my h find his own way back....not push h this way!
We'll see how he responds to the 3 things I can do each week that make h feel loved. Maybe filling his love tank will get him to fill mine?
I'm praying about h wanting me....I'm sure God will give me what I need through h. You pray for your h...God says he can take a 'heart of stone and replace it with a heart of flesh' . Let's both claim that promise, ok?