I have been following your thread even though college friend in town has kept me busy. As I read your thread your H sounds like a shy guy who is interested in a girl and approaching cautiously. It doesn't sound like OW is getting much attention. You sound very centered now. This will give H confidence to approach further. Don't be discouraged if H pulls back a bit. My XH seems to be pulling back a bit. Not sure what's happening, but it makes me want to warn you to not be surprised if your H does something similar.
Your posts led me to Freckles thread. Very interesting! I will be working my way through it over the next few days. Thanks!
When will you be speaking to your DB coach? I am posting about my convo with Jody this evening. Will you post about your DB session too?