Well called h last night! Kept it light and both of us laughing. Asked if he had his 3 things to tell me...said no but you go. I said yeah but I always talk and he said I know (kind of in a I'm sorry tone of voice) so I went first. Told my 3 things nothing major. Then he thought for a bit and said I don't have anything....got up and went to work that was it for my day.
The call lasted about 10 minutes. At one point I told him that the kids were not at home but spending the night with friends. He didn't take the bait and ask me over. I was so disappointed!!! I wish he had!
I had to satisfy myself with sleeping with a 7 & 7 and a movie .
I can't help but want that man to want me. Is this part of an 'older' relationship...the lack of pursuit by the h? Do they get so comfortable with us that they no longer 'desire' us? I mean not physically but doing things like asking us out, calling, hugging us like they miss us. I do those things for my h. I guess I feel hurt cause he can go days without any contact at all .
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