Thanks guys. imLin, in the Army, you have Tricare Insurance for Health, Dental, etc. If you are married for 20 years when you get a divorce, they cannot take that away from you, ever. If less, you only have it for a year. 86 days until my 20th Anniversery.

No matter how this turns out, if I can hold it off for 86 days, I will at least not have to worry about insurance. Very important.

My friend tells me H has obviously moved on, and I need to do the same, yet I'm still stuck loving him. Even through all this. It makes me smile when I read that someone is back together or their husband/wife is showing signs of improvement. No matter what, Irish, there is always hope. Even for me and you.