Ok I was about to leave the house today to go get the kids and the W walked in and started talking to me about simple stuff. She then asked if she could get me any groceries, I said no dont worry about it. She then came overto me gave me a hug, and buried her face in my chest for a good 3 minutes. I said what is that for as i rubbed her back. She just said "cuz" and then walked away and said "with a smile "stop trying to make me hate you" I smiled and said Im not trying to do anything. She rolled her eyes and smiled.
She then said why dont you come over to the house tonight with the kids after the gym for dinner. I said ok, then reminded her that I cant. She asked why? I said I have a C appointment. She asked what time, then said well come over for dinner and you can leave from the house. I said ok and left to get kids and go workout. As I was working out I started to think, I should just take the kids over check out the house compliment on the house and leave. Which is what I did, said the C moved up the appointment and I couldnt stick around.
I told her she could take all the kitchen stuff and decorations around the house, since I am moving in with a friend and it will save money on storage. I said when I get my own place we can split things up then. She agreed. I told her I was moving in with my buddy this weekend, which I think she is till a little upset about, but again this is her choice and I have to do what I have to do.
My S is still very confused. He does not like the fact I am not staying at the new house. He kept saying on the way there he wanted to stay with daddy, D was asleep on the car so she didnt have much input
So for now I think there is some hope, in reality this is happening for the best right now. She will either succeed in what she feels is the best thing for her, or not, but that is up to her. I can tell she is still attached, I keep saying this, but I am not feeling like I am analyzing or reading her mind, but she seems to be feeling right in her decision, but still having trouble letting go of me. So now it is time to fully DB to the best of my ability, didnt mean to make it rhyme.
