As you pointed out we are in similar situations. I also plan to stay in my new relocated location for a while as well. And I'm also expecting those death glares of anger that are really his GUILT.
Be strong Dagny!
Me 32 H 32 Ds 3.5 and 1.5 M 5 years, T 14 years EA/Bomb: 7/1/10 PA revealed: 9/14/10 Legally separated: 10/01/10