you may not realize this, but you've done a good job with dropping the rope. Examples are: Not snooping on W and her whereabouts. Not talking to the OM's W. Not using eBlaster. That is what dropping the rope is all about...not getting too attached on what the WAS does or does not do.
You're right. I didn't realize this at all.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
... keep on working your goals that you posted. Focus on you....act as if. Live your life. Do not initiate any contact with W unless absolutely necessary...related to D and joint finances until you get the firewall in place. She will wonder what you are up to and be mysterious if she asks. Don't tell her in detail what you are doing or even up to.
And there's that component I was looking for. Couldn't see that either.
Thanks.
I think Missher said on his post that it's easier to see what is working and what is not when you aren't in the middle of it.
Sure glad somebody else can see what's happening clearer than I can. I have to get better at seeing more objectively so I can see where I am.
