well h picked me up and the kids to take me to work, we argued, argued ont eh phone and picked me up with the kids to dump us off. i wanted to us his phone, i get why? who you calling? if you're using my phone i should know, i say u can listen to convo, your rate next to me.

finally gives em his phone and it was on his contacts, i saylook at all ur whores numbers, he says see that's y i don't want u on my phone u go thru [censored].

i am so angry when i'm around him so hurt and upset, he says i won't bring my kids around any one i date, i ask are you dating, not yet, i should he says, i say go ahead, i say you have been cheating whether we are seperated or not, he says cheating is intercourse,i say not.
i printed him 18 pages of what divorce does to kids, he seems to think that if we got along it wont harm the kdis any way shape or form.

i can not do this again. i did this with my first daughter, took me years to get over years.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline