CD just because you aren't facilitating the D process doesn't mean you aren't moving away.

I'm contesting my D - she has to prove grounds. Why am I doing that? On one hand it could look like pursuing and trying to force her into staying M, but there are other reasons than that. smile

My actions and my words outside of the legal maneuvering leave her no doubt I am on my boat sailing off. I have not slammed any door shut, I've just stopped looking at the damn door.

I haven't facilitated any of the legal mumbo jumbo we've already been through. She's initiated everything. Every time she makes a direction change, I follow along and maneuver inside of that new direction to protect myself and my children.


MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
Ride that wave!