ALSO......when they are like that, they are in NO mood for R talks. It only makes things worse and they get more uptight. Stay away from them right now Cindy. Believe me when I say, I know when your R is in trouble, R talks push them away. They only serve to frustrate them more than they already are. Do a 180 fast. When you are conversing with him only talk positive no matter what kind of mood he's in. Don't get sucked into trying to change his mood or let it effect how you talk to him. Unfortunately, they take much longer than we'd like to begin to see changes. Hang in there-be totally upbeat around him and maybe, just maybe, he'll start to warm up. DON'T GIVE UP! Rachael
