Once again, you're not thinking of him as a typical male. Remember, we're different. Plus, he is doing something for you. He's going to try and improve his communication. Give it time - let him do his change on talking with you, and his "issues" will come out later. For now, just show him you've listened and work with him about your boy's activity schedule. Shows your love for him and desire to work on your marriage. Sets a strong base for the two of you to build from.
I know it's frustrating and difficult, but every baby step gets you closer to a goal. Think of this as the B-rated movies most actors and actresses make before they become stars. It's not what you want, but it's a step up the right ladder.
