new chapter with strange WAW

[BeingMe]

I forgot about what she said about why she keeps OM on her fb ... Future, I think she thinks you're dumb, naive, and probably pliable. She actually thinks that she can say anything, do anything because deep down she knows you want the M more badly than she does. After all, she grew up in a broken home, and she turned out "okay" ... NOT. Good grief! She probably watched one of her parents playing these games and learned from it (I suspect the father?). Fortunately, you are not dumb or naive, and she is quickly finding out that you're not as pliable as you used to be. You are just a caring H and father. The best partner a girl could ever wish for.

It's peculiar that my H also grew up in a broken home, whereas my parents stuck together through thick and thin. I wonder if this is true for a lot of WAS vs LBS.

I can't believe she played the guilt card about the children and Disney. It's not as if going to a Disney playland is a stepping stone in a child's development. Or, am I being typically non-American? Missing their first day of school, or graduation, or wedding ... these are the things a parent should not miss.

You are not boring. She probably is going through a MLC of some sort, and one's spouse is always the one to blame for these things. I find the nicest spouses fall prey to being blamed for the most outrageous things that they did not do, history redesigned to fit the story of why the WAS is having the affair ... the list goes on.