I've never been in this position before either--I've always done really well (well, except in the ministry job--where I did really well but ended up on the wrong end of the political clique there, inadvertently). I only got a week's notice, too.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012