Hi Cindy! Way to hang in there and not cave to your insecurities! I know how hard it is when they are short with you. Could it be he's feeling the pressure of finances? It sounds like that is heavy on his mind with Xmas and giving your boys what he thinks they want. My H gets stressed this time of year, but it's mostly because he feels he never does enough for his employees. The best you can do is give him space now. That's hard to do-we want to control the R, but in trying to do that they pull away. I'm not familiar with your sitchuation. I think you must be separated by your posts, but is he wanting to reconcile? Do you date? How long have you been separated? Is there anpther W involved? Fill me in a little if you don't mind! Rachael
