CD, you may not realize this, but you've done a good job with dropping the rope. Examples are: Not snooping on W and her whereabouts. Not talking to the OM's W. Not using eBlaster. That is what dropping the rope is all about...not getting too attached on what the WAS does or does not do.
You are not agreeing to W's views or actions but letting her TAKE the responsibility for doing the actual leg work (appraisal, contacting meditator, filing D paperwork, etc.) What you are doing is putting the onus on W to do these things...not you. This is what dropping the rope is all about.
The only thing you need to focus on is firewalling your finances. The rest is up to W. Pretty darn easy, heh?
