I am actually doing pretty well today so I think I will try the movie.
Had a great IC session in which I took CG's advice and really focused on creating an anniversary of my commitment to myself. I felt strong and empowered at the end of the session.
Also had breakfast with a good friend this morning. She gave me a card in which she wrote the following:
"Rocked,
Today I celebrate you and the incredible difference you have made. I celebrate you and all you've done, and share your deep deep sorrow in not getting the chance to celebrate and recognize these things with Mr. Rocked. Not fair. So unjust. So sad. But, you, my dear, and all you are and have given is a celebration! 20 years is a long time... and you have been a truly faithful and devoted wife. You are a mom full of love and care for her children. You have given your whole self making a difference to your family. You honored your promise and I celebrate that today. Today is not what it should be. Its not what you deserve. I'm so sorry, Rocked. Wishing you peace, care and comfort especially today. You are loved Rocked. Rocked's Friend."
I choose to celebrate me today too. Who I was in my M, who I am today, my ongoing commitment to my kids, and to myself.