Seriously, what a mess. My mom's family does a lot of manipulating via FB, seems messed up to me to use a public forum for private family stuff.
I hear you on the FFG thing. I recognize I have some codependent tendencies and I think sometimes I worry more about finding the 'right' one than I do the 'wrong' one when it comes to dating! BC I am not sure I can handle a serious relationship yet without giving up too much of myself. That says a lot I suppose!
You are right, if it doesn't work out you know how to handle that. But I hope things just continue to progress on a pace you both feel comfortable with.