No I didn't talk to h...decided to let the matter drop. We got more riding on this than some toys. I simply decided to talk to my c tomorrow and get his advice. I feel as though my h is getting more and more comfortable being with me since I've yet to bring up any r/ow talk since beginning of November. I want him to feel comfortable, build a foundation so to speak then get to talking more about us. I think I'll wait for ILY to guage what the next step will be.
He called today to ask me to lunch. then as we got ready to go said he came under the assumption that I would pay. That didn't sit to well with me but I didn't fight it. He did after all provide all meals when we stayed with him this past Sunday. And he usually buys us everything including entertainment when we come over. I guess I could buy the lunch this time.